Last updated on January 9th, 2024 at 01:37 am
If you’ve been feeling lonely or left out lately, you are not alone, my friend. Being single is not always fun, and it can be painful to see so many happy couples around you meanwhile you’re just by yourself.
If this is how you’ve been feeling, then you’re in luck because I have a solution for you.
Learning how to manifest your soulmate is exactly what you need right now. And there’s good news: manifesting your soulmate will not take as much time as you think it will.
Follow along with my simple foolproof guide on how to manifest your soulmate, which I must say has worked for me and countless others!
5 Steps To Manifest Your Soulmate
1. Define Exactly What You Want In A Partner
The first step to manifesting your soulmate is to get specific about what you want in a partner.
Ask yourself things such as:
- What values, morals, and ethics do they have?
- What’s something they do on a daily basis?
- What do both of you have in common?
- How do they present themselves to the world?
And while we’re on the topic of getting to know what you want in a partner, also use this time to figure out what you don’t want in a soulmate. Things such as:
- No integrity
- Selfishness
- Dishonesty
- Relies on bad habits
You need to know not only what you want in your soulmate, but what you don’t want so you can weed out the people who aren’t for you. This will save you from wasting your time and energy.
2. Stay Focused On What You Want In A Partner
While it’s important to know what you don’t want in a partner, you still want to make sure you stay focused on what you do want in a partner so you can manifest your soulmate successfully.
Why?
Because the more you focus on what you don’t want the more you, ironically enough, attract it to you. We’ve all seen this happen before.
For example, you have that one nice shirt in your closet that you hardly wear because you don’t want to get anything on it, and the one time you decide to wear it what happens?
You mysteriously get something on it. This is not a coincidence my friend, this is actually how the law of attraction works.
Many people mistake the law of attraction for “do good, get good, do bad, get bad” and that is simply not true. The law of attraction is based on how you think and feel, not specifically what you do.
For example, the more you focus on anxious thoughts, the more anxious you feel. The more anxious you feel, the more the anxious thoughts snowball and you attract situations that further fuel your anxiety.
Another example is when you’re mad.
You get one thought that causes you to feel angry. Then the more you feel angry, the more things keep popping up in your head that continue to make you angry until finally a situation occurs that causes you to be even more angry.
We’ve all had this happen to us before. So, in knowing that, we’re going to use this to our advantage.
Instead of focusing on negative emotions, we’re going to choose to focus on positive emotions (happiness, love, and joy) because how you feel and what you focus on, you will attract.
How can you do this now?
Well, one way you can do this is to start doing things that bring you joy today. Another way you can focus on these feelings is by reading number 5.
3. Let Go Of Your Manifestation
Once you know what you want, completely let go of the outcome. Sounds backwards huh?
Well, I’ll tell you why this step is just as important as the rest.
When you rigidly hold onto something you desire, and leave no room for anything else to enter your life, you actually wind up pushing it further away from you.
Why?
Because you’re coming from a place of resistance, and remember what I said about the law of attraction. However you feel and what you choose to focus on, is whatever you will get.
Some of you may be wondering, how is this being resistant? I thought you said you had to focus on what you want?
I’ll answer that question with a scenario.
If I told you I feel really hungry and I really want a Philly cheesesteak and we pass by a food truck with chicken cheesesteaks instead of Philly cheesesteaks and I said “Absolutely not. I want a Philly cheesesteak and that’s it.”
Then we pass by another food truck with sliders and fries and I go “Nope I’m not budging.” What would you think to yourself?
You would more than likely think “You’re being kind of stubborn right now. You’re not even willing to give anything else a try even though you just said you’re hungry.”
While it’s great that I know what I want, it’s not great that I’m so stuck on what I want that I’m turning down every single thing that comes my way.
Regardless of whether you’re focused on what you want or not, if you’re feeling stubborn, stressed, and rigid, you’re being resistant. You don’t want that.
You want to remain open to all possibilities while you manifest your soulmate because chances are your partner will not hit every single thing on your list. If you rigidly hold onto the list or, even worse, stress about a specific scenario or person you will have a harder time manifesting your soulmate.
When I did this process myself, I knew exactly what I wanted in a partner but at the same time, I surrendered it to God and the Universe knowing that I will receive what I asked for when the time is right.
I kept repeating affirmations:
- I am grateful for what I have while I’m pursuing what I want
- I hold no attachment to the idea of my future partner
- I leave myself open for all good things to come to me
I decided to casually date around for a little bit and left myself open to guys who didn’t look anything like what I wanted in a partner (physically, mentally, or career-wise).
Once I ended it with the second guy I was like alright well I’m just gonna do me for a while. I started finding reasons why I really enjoyed being single (which I highly recommend you do) and then boom.
I met my current partner at a bookstore not even two weeks after I ended it with the second guy, who was very condescending by the way but that’s another story for another day.
The key takeaway here: Write down what you want in your dream partner, and then let it all go. Be willing to accept (not settle) whoever will come your way.
If you need a little extra push to let go, check out these awesome affirmations for letting go and trusting the universe.
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4. Be Patient While You Manifest Your Soulmate
You have got to be patient if you want to manifest your soulmate the correct way. I cannot stress this enough. The more you rush through things, the more likely you are to fall into something you weren’t ready for in the first place
Remember you want to let go and be carefree through this process, not rigid and stressed. The more rigid and stressed you feel, the more rigid and stressful situations you will attract into your life.
Be patient.
Use this as a time to:
- Enjoy your time being single because it won’t last forever
- Spend time with your family, friends, and yourself
- Take this time to heal yourself and past traumas
- Travel
- Explore new or existing hobbies
- Build better habits for yourself
- Tap into your unspoken potential
You have the rest of your life to be in a relationship, do not rush through this time in your life. I know you want to be in a relationship and trust me you will, but you don’t want to rush into anything.
Take your time. What’s meant for you is yours.
5. Visualize Manifesting Your Soulmate
The most fun part of learning how to manifest your soulmate, in my opinion, is to visualize.
Take some time each day to imagine what your life will be like when you have your dream partner. This could be as little as 60 seconds to as long as you want it to be.
Just make sure you take some time each day to tap into the version of you who is in a happy relationship.
More specifically, how would you feel when your partner is in your life, in the present day?
- How would you feel when you’re in his/her presence?
- What is something y’all enjoy doing together?
- How does your soulmate treat you?
- How does your soulmate talk to you?
- How do you talk to your soulmate?
Notice how I’m not mentioning physical features?
While it’s great to know what you’re attracted to, sometimes the person that is good for you, in the long run, doesn’t look how you’d think they would look.
Don’t get so caught up in what your soulmate looks like because looks make up about 5% of what your relationship is really about.
And of course, you may not have the answers to some of these questions right now and that’s okay. The whole point of this is to visualize yourself with your partner so you can tap into how you will feel when you have your partner.
And if you really want to take your visualization a step further you can do these small, yet powerful things, such as:
- Sleeping on only one side of the bed (so you can save the other side for your partner)
- Parking on one side of the garage
- Making enough food for two people instead of one (I wouldn’t necessarily do this at a restaurant though but that’s just me)
It sounds silly, but it works!
Conclusion On How To Manifest Your Soulmate
Manifesting your soulmate is not as difficult as you would think it would be. It’s all focusing on what you want in a partner, not rushing things, and waiting for the right season for your desires to bloom into reality.
I know with 100% certainty you will attract the partner of your dreams into your life; it’s all a matter of time at this point.
If you’re still a bit unsure of what you want in a partner, no worries! Here is a list of really good qualities in a partner that you may want to look out for.
In the meantime, continue being patient my friend, for your time is coming.
As always, I appreciate you for reading, and until next time!
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