How To Manifest A Specific Person To Fall In Love With You (7 Simple Steps)

Learning how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you is a pretty simple process,

Get specific about what you want
Let go of past experiences that are holding you back
Use your positive affirmations each day
Become what you want to attract
Take action

But there’s a catch that I’m, of course, not going to tell you right this second.

Follow along with my straightforward guide on how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you the right way!

How To Manifest A Specific Person To Fall In Love With You

1. Get Specific About What You Want

In order to learn how to manifest a specific person you must first know who you want to attract.

What kind of qualities do they have?
Where do they like to go?
What do they like to do?
Do they want a family?
Do they like to travel?

You’re not going to know all of these things right off the bat but the point of this is to get a general idea of what you want in that person.

If you already know the person you want to attract to you then get specific about why you want to be in a relationship with them. Again,

What qualities do they have that you appreciate?
What do you guys have in common?
What do you guys not have in common?
What is a long-term goal you both are working towards?

It’s good to know what you want in a person (for the most part) because you don’t want to jump into a relationship with just anyone and you don’t want to get into a relationship with someone because you thought you liked them.

Why do you want to manifest a relationship and what kind of person do you want to be in a relationship with?

2. Let Go Of Any Past Experiences Holding You Back

Letting go of negative experiences from the past is a very important step in learning how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you because you don’t want to let your past experiences ruin your future ones.

Moving on from your past is necessary to make room for your future.

Now, I’m not saying to completely forget about your past but what I’m saying is that you don’t want to operate out of how someone else treated you.

The person that you’re attracting into your life is not the person from your past. You must remember this, especially in times when you may feel anxious, insecure, or upset.

Some ways you can let go of past negative experiences is by:

Journaling
Getting closure (with or without the person who did you wrong)
Self-reflection questions
Praying

3. Use Your Affirmations To Manifest A Specific Person

Affirmations are a great (and free) way to shift your mindset to align with what you want.

For those of you that are new here (welcome!), and don’t know what affirmations are, I will explain them for you. To affirm something means to state something to be true so affirmations are statements where you are affirming something to be true.

Ideally, you want to affirm things like your goals, your dreams, your beauty, your capability to be successful, etc.

But you can really use affirmations for anything.

In this case, we want to use affirmations to manifest a specific person. If you don’t know what affirmations to use for that don’t fret because I’ve got you covered!

When you get done reading this article on how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you, check out my list of affirmations to attract someone specific.

You want to use your affirmations daily and consistently. I choose to use mine in the morning but it’s totally up to you.

The reason why affirmations can be so helpful in this process is because your outer world is a reflection of your inner world and when you are actively feeding your mind with statements that uplift you then that will start to take an effect on your outer world.

The trick is, you have to believe. As with many things in life, if you don’t believe then it won’t happen (this is the catch I was talking about).

I heard this quote one day and I loved it: “Whether you say you can or you can’t you’re right either way”.

You must believe, my friend. Don’t just say the affirmations, actually believe that you will receive what you’re asking for.

4. Become Who You Want To Attract

In order to change anything in your life, you must have a change within yourself. So, in order to figure out how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you, you must first do 2 things:

Find love within yourself
Become the person that you want to attract

Now, I don’t want you to take that to the extreme and literally become exactly like the person you want to attract. No.

What I mean by that is to take on some of the qualities that you’re looking for in a partner. So for example, if you want to attract someone healthy and fit, then you yourself need to find ways to be healthy and fit.

Or, if you want to attract a level-headed person into your life, start finding opportunities to be more level-headed.

Yes, you will still have differences as a couple, it’s actually necessary to have differences. But if you’re looking to attract something (or someone) new into your life, you must first have some of those qualities within yourself.

You cannot attract something that you’re not even doing yourself. It doesn’t work like that. You attract what you are.

5. Take Action To Manifest A Specific Person

One of the biggest misconceptions about manifesting a specific person is that you only have to do the above steps and that’s it.

And that couldn’t be any further from the truth.

If you want to learn how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you, you have to take action. What does taking action look like? Things such as:

Asking your crush out on a date
Sparking a conversation with your crush
Complimenting your crush in a respectful way

If you don’t already know the person that you want to attract, then taking action may look like this:

Sparking a conversation with a cute stranger
Going out to spaces where single people may be (not the club)
Reading books on how to flirt

Not taking action is the only guaranteed way of falling. You must take action, my friend.

Now, while we’re on the subject of taking action I have to tell you something. If you already have a crush (or someone you’re interested in) and they reject you

It’s okay
Move on

The point of learning how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you is NOT to force someone to do something they don’t want to do.

If someone has expressed that they’re not interested, then they’re not interested. You can’t force yourself to like someone, so take the L and move on.

I promise you will find someone who will be everything that you prayed for and then some. I promise.

6. Trust That You Will Manifest Your Person

A huge part of manifesting a specific person is to trust the process. You have to trust the process and you have to trust that God will put the right person in your life.

The reason why trusting the process is so important is because if I’m being completely honest with you, there will be times on this journey when it may look like you’re not getting what you want.

That is you being tested.

Think of it as the Universe asking: Are you going to fold and settle for something less or are you going to trust that you will receive what you asked for?

Spoiler alert: If you ask and believe then you shall receive.

You’ve gotta keep faith and you’ve gotta trust.

7. Let Go Of The Final Outcome

The last step to learning how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you is to let go of the final outcome.

This step is a bit similar to the previous one, except for one small detail. Trusting that you will receive what you asked for is just that, trusting. But letting go, is to know that you will receive what you prayed for and move on with your day.

Don’t sit around stressing and worrying about when it will happen. Just know that it will.

I know this is a very tough thing to do because I did it myself.

Yep, I also went through this same process. I was sick of being with guys who didn’t actually care about me or treat me right and so I decided that I was going to manifest a specific person who was:

Intelligent
Level headed
Comfortable with being himself
Is capable of being accountable for his actions
Trustworthy
Emotionally mature

I wrote a list of all the qualities I wanted in my future man in the form of “He is ___”. I decided I wasn’t going to stress about it like I did in the past, and I was just going to trust and let go.

I wrote the list on February 27, 2023, and I met the love of my life on September 9, 2023.

Let go of the final outcome, my friend, and trust that you will receive what you prayed for.

Learn More: 107 Motivational Affirmations For Letting Go And Trusting The Universe

FAQ On How To Manifest A Specific Person To Fall In Love With You

Can I manifest someone to fall in love with me?

If you’re wondering can I manifest someone to fall in love with me the answer is yes! It is possible to manifest someone to fall in love with you; however, you can’t force someone to fall in love with you. It has to be organic.

The easiest way to do this is to become what you want to attract.

How do you attract a specific person with mind power?

So, you cannot attract a specific person with “mind power”. The only way for you to attract a specific person is by creating a change within yourself.

You attract what you are so if you’re looking for a partner who is trustworthy and loving, then you must learn to be trustworthy and loving.

Can you manifest a specific person in a relationship?

Yes, you can manifest a specific person in a relationship, but manifesting someone who is already in a committed relationship will bring some serious issues down the line. It’s best to just steer clear of developing feelings for someone who is in a relationship.

Does manifesting love really work?

If you’re wondering does manifesting love really work, the answer is yes! Manifesting love does really work but this won’t be something that happens overnight. Attracting any sort of change in your life takes time and effort, but as long as you stick with it and trust the process you will receive the love you’re looking for.

What is the strongest manifestation technique?

The strongest manifestation technique is visualization, which is the practice of imagining your dreams or goals being a reality. Visualization has been proven to be a helpful tool for a ton of successful people including Denzel Washington and Steve Jobs.

Conclusion On How To Manifest A Specific Person To Fall In Love With You

Learning how to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you doesn’t have to be an overly complicated process.

As long as you have a good idea of what you want, take action, trust, and let go of the final outcome, you will receive what you asked for.

There’s not a doubt in my mind that you can have everything you want out of life. If your mind can conceive it then you can achieve it. Remember to still be respectful of other people’s feelings and don’t force anything.

Let things come naturally.

That’s all from me today, my friend. I hope you enjoyed this read and I will catch you later!

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