6 Signs He Completely Fallen For You (According To A Guy)

Last updated on September 26th, 2024 at 07:45 pm

If you’ve been having a hard time knowing if he’s fallen for you then look no further because these 6 signs he completely fallen for you will tell you everything you need to know!

I’ve asked countless guys what is a sure sign that a man has fallen for you and shockingly enough they all gave similar answers.

So sit back, buckle up, and let’s find out if the guy you want has already fallen for you.

Reminder: Men are typically very simple (in a good way). Whatever they are showing you is pretty much how they feel so please don’t overthink things, girl.

If he’s doing most of what’s on this list, chances are he likes you and that’s that. Don’t. Over. Think. It.

6 Signs He Completely Fallen For You

1. Responds Quickly To Your Texts/Calls

The top sign he’s completely fallen for you is that he responds to you quickly!

If you’re dealing with someone who answers fairly quickly, I’m talking within 30 minutes, then he probably likes you.

Now, there will be times that he’s busy and has things going on so that doesn’t necessarily mean that every single time he’s taking a minute to answer you, that it’s a bad thing. It probably just means he’s not near his phone or can’t answer right now.

But, for the most part, if he answers you pretty fast, chances are he’s fallen for you.

2. Asks To Hang Out

Another clear sign out of the 6 signs he completely fallen for you is that he asks to hang out.

A guy making the effort to hang out is a clear sign that he’s not only interested in you but also likes being around you. This is what you want!

See, it’s one thing for someone to be interested in getting to know you but it’s a whole other thing when someone genuinely likes being around you so if he’s making plans to see you or is asking to hang out that is a great sign that he likes you.

If he only asked to hang out with you once and never asked again, then that’s a different story (I will go into more depth with this a bit later).

Learn More: How To Manifest A Specific Person To Fall In Love With You

3. Tries To Get You To Hang Out With Their Friends

Another great sign he’s completely fallen for you is that he tries to get you to hang out with his friends.

A guy wanting you to hang out with his friends can be for multiple reasons, but the most common reasons would be that he wants to show you off (not in a douchey way) or he wants to start incorporating you into his life more.

Both of these reasons are really good because it’s just further proving that he genuinely enjoys being around you.

Another reason why a guy would want to see you around his friends is to see how you act around his friends.

Are you overly flirtatious?
Are you mainly sticking by his side?
Are you a friendly person?
Are you stuck up?
Do you act any differently around more guys?

4. They Start Getting More Personal

A lot of men in today’s society are not very open and vulnerable with their emotions. Granted, it’s nowhere near what it used to be, but many men still struggle with opening up.

So, if he is starting to open up to you and getting more personal then this is a clear sign he’s completely fallen for you.

Some personal things a guy may open up to you about include:

His trauma
His family life
His childhood
His fears
Good memories he has

Now, just because he has not opened up to you yet, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t like you. That could mean that he has a hard time opening up and that’s just a thing he has to work through for himself.

I don’t want you to look through this list of 6 signs he’s completely fallen for you and feel like if he’s not doing one specific thing then that means he automatically doesn’t like you. No.

Everyone has their own things that they deal with and you have to keep in mind that for a lot of guys, it is very difficult to open up (more than likely because when he has opened up he was dismissed).

So, if he’s not opening up just yet that doesn’t mean he hasn’t fallen for you, but if he has opened up then that is a very good sign he likes you.

5. He Wants You To Meet His Family

A guy wanting you to meet his family, especially his mom or his siblings, is one of the top 6 signs he completely fallen for you.

Why?

Because meeting someone’s family is a HUGE deal! That is one of those things that you don’t do unless you really see yourself having a future with someone.

So if he’s mentioned meeting (or taken you to meet) his family then go ahead and do your little happy dance because that man likes you.

Pro Tip: A guy taking you to meet his family is the perfect chance to see who you’re really dealing with because you’re seeing him around the people he’s most comfortable with.

6. Gets Jealous When You Bring Up Other Guys

The last but not least sign out of the 6 signs he completely fallen for you is that he gets jealous when you mention other guys.

Now, there is a very very fine line with this because while it’s good that he’s into you, you don’t want to enter a relationship with someone who is extremely jealous.

This is only going to cause major issues down the line (it probably won’t even take that long).

I would say a healthy way for a guy to show a bit of jealousy when you bring up other guys is if:

He asks who the guy is (in a respectful or chill way)
He asks how you know him (again in a chill way)
He gets a bit quiet after you bring him up

An unhealthy way to express jealousy is to be:

Intense
Possessive
Irrational
Threatening

What do I mean by “in a chill way”? He’s not overly aggressive in the way he’s asking. He’s just genuinely asking. Imagine if the guy you liked brought up a girl in a conversation, and assuming you’re not the jealous type, think about what you’d ask him.

This is what I mean by a “chill way”. He’s concerned but he’s not concerned to the point where he’s mad. He’s just a bit jealous.

And on the subject of jealousy, I want to clear up something. It is 100% natural to feel jealous from time to time. It is NOT natural to throw a temper tantrum or be extremely intense out of your feelings of jealousy.

If you feel like you’re unsure of these differences, this is a great article that explains how jealousy can show up in an unhealthy relationship.

5 Signs He’s Not That Into You

In addition to the 6 signs he completely fallen for you, I wanted to include some signs that he’s not that into you because this can help you get some clarity.

These are some things that I have gotten from men as well as things that I overlooked with guys that I liked in the past.

1. Getting Spacy After Y’all Hang Out

Okay so let’s say he makes the first move and y’all hang out and have a great time (or so you think). And then after y’all hang out, he’s suddenly not answering back as much, if at all.

That, my friend, means he’s probably not that interested in you.

Does that mean something is wrong with you? NO!

Just because a guy has decided he may not be as interested as he thought that does not mean that something is wrong with you. Do you know what it actually means?

That you’re not his cup of tea.

That’s it. It doesn’t mean you can’t get a man, it doesn’t mean you’ll be single forever, and it doesn’t mean that you’re not worthy of someone who loves you.

It just means that you’re not what he’s looking for, and chances are he’s actually not what you’re looking for either (you were probably just so excited that you kept trying to find things to like about him rather than just seeing him for who he was).

2. Not Putting In Effort In Texts (one-word texts)

Not putting in effort in texts can be confused with being busy sometimes so I’m going to highlight the clear differences.

Being busy may look like this: he answers you pretty consistently (within 30 minutes to an hour most of the time) but there was a random point in the day/week where he’s taking a few hours to answer.

Not putting in effort may look like this: he only answers every few hours or so pretty much every time y’all text, or he’s giving the absolute bare minimum responses.

When I say the bare minimum I mean the bare minimum. It pains me to do this but I’m going to share an embarrassing story just to put this into perspective.

There was this guy that I was interested in, and I thought we were to the point where I could open up a bit. So I decided to tell him about some of the things I was struggling with, and I kid you not he answered with “Yeah that’s just how life is”.

That was it.

I can’t tell you how disappointed I was when I got that. So, needless to say, if you’re getting dry-ass responses like that, please just do yourself a favor and move on. I promise there is someone out there who will put in the effort you deserve and you can and will meet him.

3. Being Extremely Nonchalant All The Time

Another sign he may not be that into you is that he’s nonchalant all the time.

Before we go any further, the definition of being nonchalant is “Someone who’s relaxed and calm, either because they do not care about something or because they are not worried about something” according to Merriam-Webster.

Of course, some guys are just nonchalant people, but there is a difference between being a nonchalant person and a guy being nonchalant because he doesn’t care to be around you.

A naturally nonchalant guy will still put in effort to:

Hang out
Have good conversations
Be there for you when you need it

A guy who is nonchalant because you doesn’t care to be around you may:

Always be on his phone
Never ask about you
Never make plans with you

4. Avoiding You

If a guy is coming up with a ton of excuses to hang out then chances are he’s not that into you.

A guy avoiding you may also look like:

Not answering texts
Ignoring calls
Canceling plans
Never making plans
Acts distant around you

And no, there is nothing you can do to make him like you.

I know this sucks to admit, but it’s important to acknowledge because the more you waste your time with someone who doesn’t want to be with you the longer you’re blocking your blessings.

5. Ghosting You

I know some of you may be thinking this is a very obvious sign to include on this list but there’s a reason why it’s here.

Many of us can relate to coming up with elaborate stories in our heads if/when someone ghosts us. It’s easy to do, especially when your feelings are hurt.

But I am here to tell you, there is no other reason why someone has ghosted you other than the fact that they’re just simply not that into you.

Does this mean you’re unlovable? No.
Does this mean that you’re not desirable? Nope.
Does this mean that he doesn’t like you like that? Yes.

I’m sorry girl I have to be honest. If someone has ghosted you, even if the last time y’all hung out was spectacular, just take the L and move on.

Don’t try to post on Instagram to make them see what they’re missing. Don’t try to get revenge and definitely don’t try to make them jealous because it’s only going to make you feel worse, not them.

You are an incredible person who deserves to be loved the way you need to be loved, and there will come a day when you will have everything you’ve prayed for and more.

Trust the process. We all have to go through crappy guys before we find the man of our dreams.

Conclusion On 6 Signs He Completely Fallen For You

Learning the 6 signs he completely fallen for you can save you from a major headache and heartbreak.

Of course, every man is different so please don’t take this list super literally. If he’s only done 4 or 5/6 on this list, chances are he still really likes you.

Here are some other signs he’s fallen for you that didn’t make this list: